Sexual Intelligence™ Blog
In a world where jealousy seems “normal,” and where so many men talk about women who cheat, there’s another kind of man. He’s the one who fantasizes about his wife or girlfriend with another guy. He may even try to make it happen in real life. Call them cuckolds or hot-wifers (as in, ‘hey guys, […]
Published May 21, 2016
I started publishing Sexual Intelligence monthly in 2000, which included an annual Awards issue. The following year my pal Betty Dodson introduced me to an enormous, vibrant, and very talented blues singer named Candye Kane. I loved her music, she loved my books, and we became friends. I went to many of her Bay Area […]
Published May 19, 2016
It seems like most human beings need an “Other” through which they demonize aspects of sexuality they fear, obsess about, or feel guilty about. That Other may be considered slightly less than fully human; more or less out of control; immoral, uncaring about the consequences of his/her/its actions; dangerous, either in its coercive power or […]
Published May 4, 2016
- Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex and How to Get It
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Audio Programs for Professionals
Working with couples can be an exciting & rich experience. But it often includes repetitive battling with clients; complaints that you don't understand one or both of them; the sense of being watched and judged; and unnecessary treatment failures.
Ask Me Anything
Q: How can I get my object of desire to love me? We have sex together, but she says she isn't ready to commit. What should I do?
Dr. Klein: It is rarely a good idea to try to make someone commit to a relationship. Particularly if you are already having sex, this woman knows you desire her, and knows what you have to offer. She obviously isn't ready to commit, but she is interested enough to have sex periodically. If you can handle the emotional turmoil, allow things to continue as they are. If it is just too painful to have sex with her under these conditions (she might even have other sex partners), explain your difficulty to her and say goodbye.
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Lectures & Seminars
An enormous part of our culture, sexuality is a big part of our lives. Not surprisingly, therapists have personal issues around sexuality, issues that influence and sometimes even determine the course of treatment. This workshop will explore many of those issues, examine how they affect our work, and suggest a […]
- New York, NY
- Sexual Intelligence: A New Approach to Sexual Function & Satisfaction
Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy Study Center