Dr. Marty Klein

Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex

Problems/Situations

Does ejaculation weaken a man’s health?

Q: I believe that ejaculating fluid during sex weakens a man’s health. But sometimes when I have sex, I ejaculate even though I don’t want to. How can I learn to control my ejaculation?

Dr. Klein: Ejaculation does not weaken a man’s health. It is a normal physical process, one of the ways the body reduces the buildup of tension during sexual arousal. Man are often tired after ejaculation because they have just exerted a lot of physical and/or emotional energy. You can learn to enjoy this state of satisfied fatigue, and can share it with your partner.

There are many folk traditions that attempt to limit ejaculation, such as tantra and carezza. For more information about this, consult a book like Margo Anand’s The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, or the World Wide Web.

Rave Reviews

Your expertise, sense of humor, and candor enabled our men to explore issues that they might otherwise ignore. They came away from your talk improved as men, fathers, husbands, brothers, sons, and friends.

Wilshire Blvd. Temple

Both the professional training and public seminars were relevant, interesting, and engaging. Your ideas on negotiating sexual reality made sex and relationships seem feasible. And you handled the equipment glitches with professional aplomb.

The Prostate Centre, British Columbia, Canada

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