Dr. Marty Klein

Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex

In Bed

Watching his masturbation

Q: Is it totally normal for me to enjoy watching my boyfriend masturbate? I love when he ejaculates on me (usually my bare stomach), but I’m feeling kind of weird about it.

Dr. Klein: It’s nice that you feel so comfortable with your mate’s sexuality. But the question isn’t, “is this normal?” The issue is, “does it work for both of you? Are you being honest and responsible about what you’re doing?” If the answers are ‘yes,’ you can accept it without thinking about what other people do, or worrying that someone else would think it’s gross.

Rave Reviews

Your ideas about better counseling of contraceptive clients were brilliant. Although we pride ourselves on being up‑to‑date, you broke new ground here.

Association for Voluntary Surgical Contraception

Those attending your training gave it an excellent rating. They found it entertaining and informative, and we are very pleased.

Idaho Psychological Association

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