Here are some suggested resolutions regarding your sexual behavior in 2019—specifically, what you should promise yourself to NOT do.
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex
Here are some suggested resolutions regarding your sexual behavior in 2019—specifically, what you should promise yourself to NOT do.
According to the new No-Fap movement, there’s an “epidemic” of “urges” to “fap”—to masturbate. To stem this destructive rampage of addiction and self-harm, there are programs all over the web designed to help men stop masturbating.
Guys who take up the No-Fap Challenge for 30, 60, or 90 days sometimes even excludes partner sex for as much as a year. These guys, usually still in their ‘20s, say they’re looking for freedom, self-discipline, and higher self-esteem.
Great goals. Bizarre (and rarely successful) strategy.
There’s a new book out about sexual fantasy and it’s half wonderful.
Social psychologist Justin Lehmiller has recently completed the largest American study of people’s sexual fantasies, interviewing over 4,000 respondents. He discusses the results in his lively new book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You.
To summarize: humans are a sexually diverse group, with an enormously wide range of sexual fantasies. And those fantasies are generally not polite, or wholesome, or respectful of boundaries—which is actually the point of sexual fantasy.
Steam-cleaning your vagina is the latest way someone’s getting rich by making women feel bad about their sexual bodies. Men are under that kind of pressure, too–and we should all resist it.
BDSM: Why do some people enjoy this? Are they mentally unstable, or unable to love? Should more couples try it? Is BDSM an orientation, like being gay?
There’s real science about sexual behavior, feelings, and biology which everyone deserves access to–and which policymakers and political activists should take seriously. Did you know these facts about pornography, abortion, and sexting?