You might be surprised, maybe even shocked, to find out how often a man comes into my office and asks, “In sex, how are you supposed to get excited if you’re not watching porn?”
Along with other post-industrial countries, America’s birthrate has fallen below replacement.
While this can create problems with a too-small future workforce, it represents a great success in reducing America’s huge problem with teen pregnancy.
Interestingly, every country that has tried cash “baby bonuses” has discovered…
Like eyes and stomachs, penises only do what we want them to under special circumstances. If a man can’t get erect without those circumstances, that is NOT “E.D.”
Unfortunately, many physicians and the public seem to believe that penises should be like ATMs–ready to go on demand, 24/7. Many men who complain about their erections do NOT have “E.D.”–they have unrealistic…
I write books about sex and relationships. Too long for some people, I also write articles about sex and relationships. Too long for some people, I now post about sex and relationships on Instagram.
Interested in infidelity, desire, empathy, porn, or orgasm? Here are some of my favorite posts, each with a bit of explanation.
Megan’s Law (1994), the Adam Walsh Act (2006), efforts to require special Sex Offender license plates, and dozens of other laws are designed to restrict the movement, residence, employment, privacy, and every other right of convicted sex offenders.
Unfortunately, data from various states fails to find any of these laws enhance childrens’ safety. The reality is that these laws make us all LESS SAFE.
But they do serve as an outlet for angry, frightened people who…
Many of GenZ’s young men have a troubled relationship to sex.
Porn is not the problem.
However, HOW young men consume and digest porn is a big problem.
Most people are able to watch films like Star Wars, The Hurt Locker, Mad Max, and Harry Potter without thinking that they’re instructional—manuals on how to drive, fly, fight, or conjure.
But somehow, today’s young men think porn is a library of documentaries…