BDSM: Why do some people enjoy this? Are they mentally unstable, or unable to love? Should more couples try it? Is BDSM an orientation, like being gay?
Changing the Way People, Politics & the Media Look at Sex
BDSM: Why do some people enjoy this? Are they mentally unstable, or unable to love? Should more couples try it? Is BDSM an orientation, like being gay?
Every week, people tell me exactly how they make sex way too complicated, and therefore difficult or impossible to enjoy. Here are some ways they do that.
I wish I could just say “Stop making sex more complicated than necessary…”
There’s real science about sexual behavior, feelings, and biology which everyone deserves access to–and which policymakers and political activists should take seriously. Did you know these facts about pornography, abortion, and sexting?
People want more passion in long-term (and even some new) relationships.
The solution may involve saying goodbye to our youthful model of intense desire, and creating a relaxed, communicative model of sexual interest that is sustainable through the lifecycle.
The Recall campaign against Judge Persky will undermine judicial independence. It also trivializes the punishment of lifetime sex offender registration for a conviction of attempted rape.
The idea of deriding something as “just like a woman” has gone out of fashion, and I daresay no modern woman would stand for it.
So why has “just like a man” become increasingly acceptable?