It’s fascinating what people blame on porn–such as a husband behaving like a selfish jerk.
You might as well blame food for obesity, or cars for dangerous driving, or kids for bad parenting. Of course, obesity involves food, dangerous driving involves cars, and bad parenting involves kids. But if you want to understand problematic behavior, you have to look past the surface.
I’ve been a licensed marriage & family therapist and sex therapist since 1980. Since then I’ve been asked a jillion questions about sex—and in all that time the questions haven’t changed.
These are the questions of both men and women, old and young, of all orientations and levels of experience. Whether someone is kinky, vanilla, or in-between, here are the most common questions people ask about sex.
The latest news about sex is filled with fake problems, fake outrage, and fake solutions. And with Communism no longer believable as the most dangerous force in the world, American leaders have substituted sex traffickers and homosexuality as the major threat to our civilization.
Why do we find sex uninspiring? Maybe we expect it to compete with the endless excitement of the internet.
For many people, Valentine’s Day is a night of pressure, followed by disappointment or conflict. It doesn’t have to be that way.
A wide range of men & women seek treatment with me because they are deeply ashamed of various aspects of their sexuality.