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Charlie Kirk, Sex, & Democracy

Charlie Kirk was so effective at arguing his position, he became dangerous. He lied, he inspired conspiracy theories, he wanted the Bible to rule America.

And no matter how dangerous he was, killing him is even more dangerous.

Having already demonized the Democratic opposition and professional judges as lunatics, radicals, and traitors, Trump now pledges to silence all voices who criticize the government—TV shows, college professors, bureaucrats.
The Trump administration now promises

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Sex? Nothing Has Changed, Shows NYT

I’ve lived through a lot of serious change in my lifetime: microwave ovens, smartphones & social media, the interstate highway system, the internet, the invention of frozen yogurt.

Sexuality, however, is still more or less the same: what people want, what people fear, what people can’t talk about, what people don’t understand about their bodies.

A recent New York Times piece interviewed sex therapists (no, not me, but several of my highly respected friends), asking…

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National Orgasm Day

In a recent national study, more than half the female respondents reported faking an orgasm at least once. A quarter of male respondents said that they had, too.

We know why people fake orgasms…
And we know how most people can orgasm more reliably…

But do remember: If you think orgasm is the best part of sex, you’re missing the best part of sex.

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SCOTUS: Want Porn? Show Your ID

If your state wishes, it can now require you to show ID proving you’re over 18 in order to access any website containing material “harmful to minors.”

So says the Supreme Court.

Harmful according to who? The state. Using what criteria? It doesn’t need any. Why should you care? Because (1) you like looking at porn, and want to do so in private; (2) you like looking at whatever legal non-porn material you want, and want to do so in private.

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