People have been asking me questions about sex for over 30 years. Here are some recent ones, with my answers.
In addition to providing accurate information, I want to help you think about sexuality in a new way—a way that emphasizes what you want and how you feel, rather than what you’re supposed to do and how a “real man,” “real woman,” or “great lover” behaves.
After all, sex isn’t just an activity—it’s an idea.
The Body
- Clitoral Stimulation
- Female Arousal
- Oral sex is difficult
- Unwanted sexual fluids
- Medications & erections
- Pulling out
- Catching STDs from foreplay
- Penile enlargements
- Vasectomy
- Popping cherry
- Define “period”
- Semen Allergy
- Pregnant?
- Multiple contraceptives
- Ejaculation power
- Youthful look
- Sleepy sex
- Curved erection
- First time
- Masturbation effects
- Female Frontal Nudity
- Pubic Hair Removal
- Dislocated Hips
In Bed
- “Kinda had Sex”
- Anal masturbation
- Anorgasmia dangerous?
- Condom instructions
- Energy & ejaculation
- Foot “fetish”
- Lost erection
- Mutual climax
- Refusing oral sex
- Semen as lubricant
- Shared masturbation
- Sleepy after masturbation
- Small amount of ejaculate
- Threesomes
- Tight vagina
- Watching his masturbation
- Virginal bleeding
Relationships/Emotions
- Affection without attraction
- Anger or bad temper?
- Arranged marriage
- Bad sexual decisions
- Cyber romance
- Double message
- Fear of intimacy
- Female orgasm
- Incompatibility
- Is oral sex “dirty”?
- Living together
- Male virginity
- Married masturbation
- Masturbation
- Partnering
- Sex before going steady
- Sex without intercourse
- Unrequited love
- Upcoming infidelity?
Problems/Situations
- “Slow” arousal
- Back pain
- Condoms & erections
- Cross-dressing
- Does ejaculation weaken a man’s health?
- Ejaculation obsession
- Erogenous zones
- Female orgasm
- Lack of desire
- Male anorgasmia
- Married voyeur
- Overcoming rape
- Painful sex
- Pantyhose fetish
- Prozac
- Rapid ejaculation
- Trouble reaching orgasm during vaginal intercourse
- Unbroken hymen
- Uninterested wife
- Vaginal pain
- Wedding night fears