Clitoral stimulation

Q: What is the best way to stimulate a woman’s clitoris? Also, is there a G spot in the vagina, and how can it be stimulated?

Dr. Klein: The best way to stimulate a particular woman’s clitoris is to ask what she likes, and invite her to react to how you touch her. Every woman is different, so find out what your partner likes. In general, women like it touched gently, steadily, and with some lubrication such as K-Y or spit.
The G spot is on the inside roof of the vagina, about a third of the way in. Again, ask your partner how she would like you to touch her there, if at all (not all women enjoy this). If she has no experience with this, you can experiment together. Remember to go slowly, invite her to show you how she likes to be touched, and hug frequently.

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