Male anorgasmia

Q: We enjoy making love very much. But my husband has trouble ejaculating. I find myself not being able to go long enough and then he gets frustrated with himself.

Dr. Klein: This is more common than most people think. The best advice I can give you is:

  • Don’t make a fuss. No man ejaculates all the time. Just enjoy the sex the way it comes.
  • Feel free to use your hand, mouth, vibrator, or anything else to make him come. In fact, have him use his own hand–this works best for most men.


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