Many of GenZ’s young men have a troubled relationship to sex.
Porn is not the problem.
However, HOW young men consume and digest porn is a big problem.
Most people are able to watch films like Star Wars, The Hurt Locker, Mad Max, and Harry Potter without thinking that they’re instructional—manuals on how to drive, fly, fight, or conjure.
But somehow, today’s young men think porn is a library of documentaries…
Many couples argue about porn–but the conflict isn’t really about porn. It’s typically about sexual dissatisfaction–how much they do it, whether they both enjoy, whether they feel close during and after.
These are important issues. And eliminating porn from one partner’s life won’t address any of them.
What’s needed instead is…
More than half of all Americans live in states that now (or by year’s end) will require them to prove they’re adults in order to access most legal porn sites.
How can you prove you’re a grownup? By uploading your driver’s license, passport, mortgage or employment record.
Raise your hand if you want to share that kind of data with the government—in the context of watching porn, no less.
What kind of a woman would destroy a perfectly good marriage (and great sex life) because her husband looks at porn?
There’s too, too many of them. One of those hubbies came to see me last week.
OK, he lied about watching. Not cool to lie.
But why would a grownup lie? The reason isn’t that complicated—he…
No-Nut November discourages men from masturbating, touting dangerous myths about its benefits.
This has metastasized into NoFap, a million-man movement of violent conspiracy theories (porn=Jews), racist ideology, & misogyny.
“Sex addiction” treatment understands nothing about sex, lets one or both partners evade responsibility, and assumes “addicts” are out of control.
Its handling of infidelity, porn use, sex workers, “emotional affairs,” desire, fantasy, and masturbation damages people and their marriages.